How Good Men Attract High Quality Women Without Even Trying
The Do More Trap
The Dao State
How Good Men Attract Women
Video 4 Coming Soon
Has it ever annoyed you how so-called “bad boys” seem to attract plenty of "hot girls"?
Well, I’ve got good news for you.
Good men — men who are clear about their values, what they stand for, and try their best to live a life of integrity — good men have a distinct advantage when it comes to attracting high quality women.
(Notice that “good men” are different from “nice guys.” Nice guys are actually codependent narcissists: they act nice in order to get the girl to like him. When she doesn’t like him back — “despite all the nice things he’s done for her” — he gets bitter and angry. Nice guys are not good men.)
Good men can attract high quality women using the concept I teach in this video series and in my new upcoming course, Invincible
In my last video to you, I explained the secret to attracting women effortlessly. It’s based on entering the “Dao State” — or in modern scientific terminology, the “Flow” state — while with a woman you’re attracted to.
If you haven’t seen that video yet, make sure you watch that first (just search your inbox for my last message to you).
Most men, however, are unable to enter the “Dao State” at will, especially when they’re around attractive women.
And this is where the good man has a distinct advantage over any other type of man.
How?
I explain how in this new video I made for you here on this page.
You’ll be stunned by how easily a truly good man can attract high quality women.
Best,
David
P.S. If you missed the first two videos in this series, you can also watch them by clicking on the thumbnails in the menu bar just above.
To Do Now: Watch the entire video closely, and then share what your ideal day would be like with your ideal woman!
- The Do More Trap
- The Dao State
- How Good Men Attract Women
- Video 4 Coming Soon
39 Comments
Charlie
February 5, 2019I am going to write down everything and really focus here. I am sick of being in a loop where I allow the woman to control my confidence and how I feel. I want to be confident in myself again and be in the state of flow like you mention here. If I can get it under control here, I think I can do it at work too and just have a more fulfilling life in general.
Sam
June 24, 2020These videos seem really solid. Especially the emphasis on having standards for yourself. My ideal date with my ideal woman would be going to a nice restaurant and talking about my job or favorite movies and music on the date
Enrique
August 30, 2021I dealy, I will have a nice dinner, chat about anything or everything, preferences in lifestyle etc then go to the pub, disco or whatever to have fan, dance, enjoy the night the end it in a hotel at morning afterwards 😉.
Paul
February 5, 2019I noticed my patterns right away. I become needy and I can tell it is such a turn off for women. It may not happen right away either. Sometimes the women will just allow it to continue for months or years before they suddenly just “had enough”. I watched the three first videos, looking forward to the next one.
Vince B.
February 5, 2019David, your work is stellar. I have done a lot of courses with those pick up artists and that stuff is great for one night stands and just having fun but for long term fulfillment, it just don’t work. If any man out there wants a lasting relationship on a stable foundation with a woman, you have to do what David says. He is spot on.
Christopher Roberts
February 5, 2019I like how you say “high quality women”. One of the biggest issues for a lot of guys (and at one point myself) is that they will see the hottest woman out where ever they are and have the need to “bag her”. If you are basing your attraction on how much skin is showing or her looks and nothing more, it will not last.
Dan
February 5, 2019When you go into a date with a woman telling yourself anything in your mind, you are already not allowing yourself to be in a state of flow. You are stuck in your own mind and once your mind starts going off the rails, you can’t stop it. I have done it plenty of time myself.
Mike P.
February 5, 2019I feel like the looser a woman acts in public, the more obvious a man should avoid her. They are looking for someone to prey on. Like some kind of animal in a night club or something. No matter how attractive a woman may be, never get sucked into this trap!
Leonard
February 5, 2019Another great video David. I have been a long time follower and listener of your work. You have not only helped me out but several buddies of mine. I don’t know how you do your research but everything you have ever spoken on, you have been 100% right. I just wanted to take the time to thank you for all your hard work.
Peter Rouge
February 5, 2019The last date I was one, I can tell you first hand that I was doing exactly what you said. I was sitting in my head waiting for her to tell me I can be confident or happy. I don’t even remember being like this when I was younger. I was just myself and confident and girls would flock to me. Now I spend so much time in my head that it is hard for me to even enjoy the moment.
Will
February 5, 2019I feel like some women will actually prey on men who they can tell are weak or lack confidence. They typically will lead these guys on and then once they have had their fill, discard them for the next one who comes along. I have been in situations like this and I hated it. I am glad you brought it up.
Jake M.
February 5, 2019This makes a lot of sense when you compare dating to college tests. I feel like the instant feedback helps in most cases but when you can’t get it, then it makes the time between spent more in your own head than in the moment. You end up worrying about pointless things because of this.
Nick
February 5, 2019Loved the first two parts because i hadn’t heard of the do more trap and the research that went into figuring out the flow and what it is. This series is amazing!
Cole
February 5, 2019Pretending to the be someone you’re not isn’t gonna work. I agree David. You must fully commit to it day to day.
jamie
February 5, 2019“You will be wondering what else you can do to attract her”. This hits home for me. I’ve spent most of my youth thinking, overthinking what to say what to do so that i could keep the conversation going. Awesome series!!
Ben
February 5, 2019i really like that this course doesn’t endorse the fact that you have to do dozens of cold approaches just to *maybe* be more attractive. I like that. Will be enrolling for sure!
Michael
July 18, 2020Still stuck on the do more trap
ryan
February 5, 2019I really like the analogy with the university papers. This finally clicked with me.
I still have trouble reading the responses from women, i’m so lost ahah. Looking forward to the course mate
Scotty
April 20, 2019Leap I’m stuck in a do more trap trying to figure out a way understand what you talkin about but it’s trying to figure out how I put it to use
Rpb
May 30, 2019Love it. This concept applies to your whole life NOT just your pursuit of your ideal woman
Paul
July 18, 2019How can I prove to the lady home with that I love her make her trust me me she has just come out of a bad relationship I am completely the opposite to her partner she doesn’t know how it feels to be treated properly I cannot convince her enough that I just want to treat her good
Jon-Paul
August 12, 2019I have followed many dating and self-help sites over the years, and they have touched on many of the concepts you are talking about. I am hooked on these series though, because you explain these concepts in depth in a highly relatable way. I think i have found what I have been looking for for a long time.
Thank you.
Beau
September 3, 2019I imagine going to a nice restaurant that is full of people, with my date by my side equally as confident and happy. Ready to experience love and life together.
Kristian hanford
March 17, 2020I fell into the do more trap as soon as I met my ideal woman, and I found it hard to get into my normal flow. But with everything David has said on what to do and how to do it it’s given me the knowledge that I needed. I met her while we were working with each other, then our place was closed we lost all contact with each other and I didn’t see her again for a long time. When we did start meeting up again I was to nervous and to much of a nice guy with her, but the training has helped me a lot, thank you David.
Richard House
October 27, 2019Great stuff again David. I am taking my date to the local casino for a day of fun followed by dinner. I want people to see how happy we are together, and how we gel, or flow together.
Avery brown
February 17, 2020Ideal date would be with my ideal partner would be going to watch our favorite comedy shows or a nice romantic dinner and movie night Netflix night on the couch maybe a fun night in
Anthony
March 7, 2020Am already in a relationship and am not interested in any other but her…..but some how I feel like she’s slipping away kinda,may be because am insecure
Kristian hanford
March 17, 2020I fell into the do more trap as soon as I met my ideal woman, and I found it hard to get into my normal flow. But with everything David has said on what to do and how to do it it’s given me the knowledge that I needed. I met her while we were working with each other, then our place was closed we lost all contact with each other and I didn’t see her again for a long time. When we did start meeting up again I was to nervous and to much of a nice guy with her, but the training has helped me a lot, thank you David.
gabriel
April 23, 2020I’m already in a reconquering mission for the girl I am but this is definetely helping me have a better idea of things.
Jan
September 7, 2020I love your videos, David – they are right on the money, and the information given is spot-on. I just wonder why the music has to be so damn loud! I find it very distracting at that level. Just sayin’…;)
Dominic Nunziata
October 23, 2020My ideal date would have me connecting with my date. We would continue the date at her place or my place.
Colin Overton
November 15, 2020I’ve definitely been going after the wrong type of woman then, Indentifying your core values and beliefs aligns you with what type of woman you want in your life.
The physical attraction does play a part, but not so significantly in the grand scheme of things
Jason Walters
December 7, 2020I’m recently going through a divorce after 10 years and two kids. It’s brutal. I don’t want it and she won’t go to counseling or anything. She went to her own counselor and drank her kook aid now all she wants is to be done even after she cheated on me and lied about. I’m a mess to say the least and have tried everything to get her back. After watching the do more trap I realize my efforts have come across needy and insecure. I have to set standards for myself. Thanks for the videos. Gave me a new perspective
Joey
March 29, 2021My ideal woman would show interest by asking questions, being humorous and playful. We would have a natural conversation flow with laughter, sharing interests, goals, funny stories, and a little intimacy.
Nils
May 22, 2021Really nice stuff! Could you please turn down or off the background music for the next part as I find it distracting. Cheers!
Jody
June 1, 2021I get it but I’m really throwed off. I am the youngest of 4 brothers that would pick on me called me fat and Judy instead of Jody. My dad was a really bad and mean alcoholic my mom was obese and addicted to gambling. I did good with women in my 20 s but I didn’t care or do them right I got married at 28 and was married for 18 years I fell so unattractive to her I didn’t want to be married anymore. Now I really don’t have a clue after being married for so long. I think I subconsciously push women away. My inner child is probably a huge mess
Craig Smith
June 4, 2021I like your points and links to psychology. I currently have my dream girl, and I am trying to look for ways to improve our relationship, your key advice has been to do less. Hmmm, revolutionary, it is something that I am incorporating into my ideology, I have heard of the flow state for my job in the military but not looked at it for my relationship. My dream first date is to go Scubadiving with my partner. Lol which we did. Thank you for your advice and I look forward to your final video
Hien
July 16, 2021My ideal date with the ideal woman would be an outdoor adventure away from the city, where we are surrounded by nature and its beauty. My ideal woman is easy-going, always receptive to my suggestions, and a little bit more cautious than I am (and drop-dead gorgeous, of course). She would follow me to the end of the Earth, wherever I go, without question.
Teyo
August 3, 2021These are great videos my confidence is returning on knowing how to react in these situations now
Thankyou so much for your teachings
Troy