Here’s your second video in the course on Developing Social Confidence:

 

Recap:

Here’s the ONLY opener you’ll need. We’ve tested multiple variations for over a decade, and this exact variation had the most success overall. So, stick to the exact script below:

“Hey/Excuse me, I saw you [doing X-activity], and I wanted to come over to tell you… (pause) I think… (pause) you are… (pause and SMILE) [Y-adjective]. And I just wanted to meet you.”

Go do it!:

+ Practice the opener in front of a mirror until you’re comfortable with it

+ Try it out today! If you’re already comfortable with Compliment Chit Chat from our first video, it’s a good idea to combine the two.

At this point, you’re probably wondering what to say and do next.

That’s exactly what I’m going to share tomorrow, where I’ll teach you my tried and tested 3-step method to get her number… in under a minute! Look out for the link in your inbox tomorrow!

David Tian, Ph.D.