Your Free Video Course on “How to Start Conversations with Women” and “How to Get Her Number.”  Enjoy!


  • “Hey/Excuse me, I saw you [doing X-activity], and I wanted to come over to tell you… (pause) I think… (pause) you are… (pause and SMILE) [Y-adjective]. And I just wanted to meet you.”
  • After forming a connection, you say, “Hey, I’ve got to run to a [high-value time constraint]. But I’d love to keep in touch and maybe [low pressure meeting. E.g., “meet for coffee or something.”] Do you have your phone with you?”
  • ”Yes” => “Great. Let’s trade.””No” => “No problem. I’ve got mine.”
  • Open your phone to the keypad and put it in her hand.
  • What now?

    1. Try it out!
    2. Check out our live coaching events schedule, especially if you’re in Asia!
    3. Review the video! Some people watch it over and over again just to absorb everything.
    4. Watch your inbox for the next lessons.
    5. This is only the beginning. Reply to any of my emails to you, and tell me your dating goals today! My job is to help you!

    Best, David Tian, Ph.D.

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