"What Should You Do If She Rejects You?"
As a quick reminder: for the first time ever, I’m writing about how to be “cool” from the inside out, and effortlessly turn on amazing women, while being the envy of other guys.
How do you charm almost any woman you want? How do you get that confidence that draws people to you? How do you have the freedom to pick the type of relationship you want with a girl—whether it’s an exclusive monogamous one, multiple girlfriends, or an open friends-with-benefits arrangement?
I’ve done this for almost 10 years, and I’m including the actual strategies and techniques I pioneered. At the end of the month, I’m opening up Limitless, my newest and most comprehensive program.
Here are the 3 best posts I made last week:
- The “Do More Trap” — the straight truth about getting women to like you (you need to know how to avoid this trap because if you don’t know what it is… you’re probably guilty of doing it right now). Watch my new, raw and unedited 7-minute video explaining this.
- The Terrible Things That Modern Society Has Done To Repress Your Masculine Magnetism — Attracting women might seem mysterious to you, but it really should be as natural as walking and breathing… it’s just that modern society has conspired against you and obstructed your natural power as a man… watch my new, never-before-released 2-hour video, and find out how to turn this to your advantage, and get the girls.
- How To Demolish Your Deepest Insecurities — Do you want women to love you just for who you are? Do you want to know how to turn women on USING your insecurities and vulnerabilities? I walk you through exactly how to do it. Stay tuned until the Q&A at the end where I help a guy who has a disability… and show him how to make it work FOR him.
What To Do If She Rejects You: The Psychological Aikido Technique
Last night, I saw this go down at my neighborhood bar:
An average-looking dude walked over to a girl at the bar who just ordered a drink. She was in stilettos and dressed in no-nonsense head-to-toe black.
Him: “How’s your night going?”
Her (after giving him a quick head-to-toe scan): “Not interested. My friends are back there, and I’m just getting a drink.”
Him: “Oh… Well, how’s your night going?”
Her: “Go bother some other girl. You’re not tall enough for me.”
He just stared in stunned silence for a while. I guess he’s not used to meeting bitchy girls.[Bartender then handed her a drink, and she handed him her credit card.]
Him (trying to pretend like her insult didn’t affect him): “So what are you drinking?”
She just stared ahead and ignored him. Then she got her credit card receipt, thanked the bartender, and walked off.
The guy looked down at his drink, dejected.
This scene happens almost EVERY NIGHT in EVERY CITY… around the world.
Think about the average guy who gets rejected by a girl at the bar…
What does he normally do?…
He pretends like nothing happened… in the hopes that she won’t notice it bothered him… (and in the hopes that nobody else notices he just got taken down).
The problem is… almost all HOT GIRLS NOTICE WHEN YOU’RE THROWN OFF…
And it’s not attractive.
It's a downright turn off.
Women don’t respect a man who is too afraid to deal with his own insecurities… or to face his fears… and they don’t respect a man who accepts disrespect from others.
However, don’t swing completely to the other extreme, either… as many drunk Asian men do in Asia.
They bottle up all their bitterness and frustration… until they finally explode with rage and they lash out in disproportionate anger… (mistakenly thinking they’re being “alpha” and “manly”).
This is NOT how you — as a proud member of Team Aura — will handle it, though.
Where other men passively hide their fear, frustration, and shame… you will channel your insecurities and vulnerabilities into great STRENGTH.
Like an emotional Aikido master, you will use her responses as a source of strength for yourself.
I demonstrate how to do exactly this Technique in this brand new video here:
Here’s what I want you to do.
1. Watch the 24-minute video above.
2. Download this one-page Worksheet and follow the instructions (just "right-click and save" this link).
3. Then send me your answers from the Worksheet. Copy and paste your answers into an email and send it to me at david "at" auradating.com I’d love to hear from you! And I read every single email.
99% of guys who want success with women don’t even take this small step. But Team Aura readers — that’s YOU — know that if they put the work in ahead of time, their success with women is virtually guaranteed — and you can get 10x the results that the average man gets.
Do yourself a favor. Get it done. Get it handled.
David Tian, Ph.D.