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  • Pete

    Reply Reply March 3, 2017

    I have never heard someone say anything like this but I am sold! I have never had any luck with woman and I have a feeling it is because I have no emotional control over myself. I will have to do what you said in your videos and DL the workbook.

  • Dean Parlow

    Reply Reply March 3, 2017

    I know this stuff might sound bogus to some but it works. I went through his whole program and I am not engaged to the most beautiful woman I had ever laid my eyes on and SHE IS MINE! She is the perfect fit for me, and my one and only best friend. Thank you!!!!

  • Mike C.

    Reply Reply March 3, 2017

    What are those ladies back there doing? I had to watch through this video twice! Anyways, I really liked what you had to say. I am fairly certain you know what you are talking about so I am going to take your advice and see how things go for me.

  • Nick L.

    Reply Reply March 3, 2017

    I downloaded the program and I am confused but happy. This is the first time someone has ever said to do something by being in control. Not in control like dominance, but as a leader. That really sold me on your program. All women want someone who will be a MAN!

    • Christopher Morgan

      Reply Reply March 10, 2017

      Keep watching and reading the content. You will get it very soon and then you will look back and be shocked at how easy it is for you to get women.

      • David C

        Reply Reply October 21, 2017

        My most recent girlfriend stated that she loved me and I loved her so I made a bold move from the West Coast to the East Coast to be closer to her In order for our relationship to grow even more . I needed to come back to the West Coast to take care of some business for approximately 6 weeks and we spoke today and she has already started seeing someone else and stated to me that she did not want me coming back. That’s a hard thing to hear since I had given up so much to be with this person and who I thought we were going to build a life together. I want to be able to find that person Who is willing to put forth that kind of effort the same effort I am willing to put forth. I’m worried that doesn’t exist. Im Feeling as though my heart has been crushed. I just want to be able to share my happiness with someone special

  • Patrick

    Reply Reply March 3, 2017

    I have never been able to give a women “butterflies”. Not even when I was in my teens. I am not sure if what I am saying is wrong or what I am doing it wrong. I have been on dates, had girlfriends, but one thing they all say about me is I don’t give them that “spark”… I hope I can now.

  • Frank Rose

    Reply Reply March 3, 2017

    This is the first thing I have read that basically counteracts feminist destruction on men. Women who like men want a MAN. A man is a leader. It doesn’t mean he is a control freak or mean, he is just someone a woman can depend on. The men these days are becoming more like pillows and women are to blame, sadly. Great advice!!

  • Chris

    Reply Reply March 3, 2017

    So in order to get a response out of a woman that you want, you need to be the one to lead by example? This almost sounds like the pack thing in nature which is actually pretty fascinating. I will spread the message and try your tips out. Thank you!

  • Micheal Anderson

    Reply Reply March 3, 2017

    I actually got stuck here. I don’t know what I want. I have spent my whole life going in and out of relationships. I can’t ever just be happy with one woman. It gets to a certain point in the relationship where I lose interest or I feel trapped. Is this because I am not being true to myself?

    • David Hancock

      Reply Reply March 10, 2017

      Get the content and watch the videos. You are not going to be guessing what is next once you are done. trust me, it is not a bad thing at all!

  • John ~

    Reply Reply March 3, 2017

    I would like to ask you something about this advice. You say to have control and be the leader she needs you to be, how does someone establish this without giving the wrong impression? I feel like if I were to do this, I would drive women away from me. I thought they like having power in relationships??

  • Vince M.

    Reply Reply March 3, 2017

    I feel like this it the first time someone has ever spoken to me as a person about women. So many guys out there try to sell you these magic lines and garbage to “score babes” but it is just mind game that most women think is scummy. You actually address what women want and teach men to change themselves instead of the other way around.

  • Sandra

    Reply Reply March 3, 2017

    David is very correct in saying that women want men to listen to them, to actually listen not fake it!

    • Craig Stanley

      Reply Reply March 10, 2017

      You are right Sandra, and thank you for the message from the other side 🙂 Men need things like this and they will go far.

  • Evan

    Reply Reply March 3, 2017

    I’ve never been that good of a listener but I want to be one. I want to give my all to my girlfriend.

    • David Dorado

      Reply Reply March 10, 2017

      You are not kidding. I feel like i have been to the end of the internet and when I found David’s information on video, I could not believe I did not see it sooner. Signing up is the best thing I could have ever done.

  • Owen

    Reply Reply March 3, 2017

    After watching your video I told my girlfriend I want to talk to her about us and I let her to most of the talking and just listen. It’s so amazing how much you can learn when you keep your mouth shut!

  • Carter

    Reply Reply March 3, 2017

    I want to find that woman that deserves my full attention and love.

  • Nicholas

    Reply Reply March 3, 2017

    I am looking forward to joining your program and learning more about women.

    • Mack Phillips

      Reply Reply March 10, 2017

      You are not going to be disappointed man! Get in line and get ready to meet some of the hottest woman that all just want to please you 🙂

  • Isaiah

    Reply Reply March 3, 2017

    I never would have though you could learn so much from a free video.

  • Jerome

    Reply Reply March 3, 2017

    How can you get tired of picking up women?

  • Perry

    Reply Reply March 3, 2017

    I like the way you teach, David. You are very different from other people in the dating niche.

  • Scott

    Reply Reply March 3, 2017

    So, this whole course will be based on finding the one, right? If so, where do I join?

    • Lou Sharp

      Reply Reply March 10, 2017

      yes it is. All you have to do is sign up your email address at the top.

  • Jose

    Reply Reply March 3, 2017

    I just want to learn how to be a better listener and how to make girls laugh. Can you help with that?

  • Nick

    Reply Reply March 5, 2017

    I admire your commitment to this community and really appreciate the effort you have put into helping others.Another awesome video man.

  • Adam

    Reply Reply March 5, 2017

    I really belive that what you’re doing is amazing because you are helping and supporting a lot of people and changing many people’s lives including mine. Well done david

  • Rian

    Reply Reply March 5, 2017

    I really enjoyed reading that worksheet. Hopefully more to come!!

    • Jon Witter

      Reply Reply March 10, 2017

      That is good news. I was wondering if this information is being passed around on social media. I am not even sure how I found out about it. Thanks for commenting and letting us all known how you got here!

  • JOHN

    Reply Reply March 5, 2017

    Man, seeing your videos makes me feel better. I always thought i was the only one not being good with women. Hopefully i will be better with your help. Great tips

    • Fred Olmstead

      Reply Reply March 10, 2017

      Take the plunge. Once you are inside the game you are never going to look back. Take the tips and run with them! Good luck!

  • Lucas

    Reply Reply March 5, 2017

    Today was a good day. I found your website,your videos,signed up for the mail. awesome.

  • Mike

    Reply Reply March 5, 2017

    We all make mistakes in life. Noone is born with knowledge on how to treat women in the best way, and these videos give me so much hope. Looking forward to them!!!

  • michel

    Reply Reply March 5, 2017

    Good effort, good video. I love that you are spontanious and not something prepared or reading from a script. Geniue.

  • michel

    Reply Reply March 5, 2017

    David, i’ve been reading a lot of comments here, i truly belive that you deserve these because what you speak and with what passion you speak is incredible and absolutley amazing.

  • JAKE

    Reply Reply March 5, 2017

    awsome im looking to download/buy your program. Really interested.

  • zach

    Reply Reply March 5, 2017

    Do we have a release date yet @David? I like the message that you send out to us.

    • Wallace Speth

      Reply Reply March 10, 2017

      Easiest way to find out about new videos would be to sign up for the email list! Get notified right away!

  • Mike

    Reply Reply March 5, 2017

    This is a very complicated niche, i really invested to see what your program is. Do we have a release date or pricing? Looking forward to it!

    • Kevin Armstrong

      Reply Reply March 10, 2017

      Very complicated is right, however, I have not seen another program that gets into this topic the way that David does. There is a lot of information there that can help just about ANYONE.

  • KIT

    Reply Reply March 5, 2017

    I used to embrace my bad approach to women. Hopefully this program will change it.

  • augustin

    Reply Reply March 5, 2017

    im hoping that this will sort out some of my ‘fears’ and ‘bad’ behavious towards women when it comes to cold appoarching them.

  • Sean

    Reply Reply March 5, 2017

    Brilliant video David. Im looking forward to watch the next one!

  • Michael B.

    Reply Reply March 5, 2017

    That was legit mindblowing. Your passion, your motivation, the way you speak says it all. Count me in!!!!!!!

    • Eric Wolf

      Reply Reply March 10, 2017

      Very good at getting the message through to you, right? That is what I like about his videos. Good luck.

  • Clint p.

    Reply Reply March 7, 2017

    Love it

  • Garrett Gibbs

    Reply Reply March 10, 2017

    The tip sheet is well worth it in case anyone was wondering if it was worth giving up your email address to get it.

  • Christopher Hernandez

    Reply Reply March 10, 2017

    I have downloaded your cheat sheet and let me say that you have some very good information right there! That should be the first thing EVERY GUY does when he is here. Great work!

  • Frank Stevens

    Reply Reply March 10, 2017

    These types of videos are perfect for the man that has been working his ass off at school or work and has little time to perfect this type of skill. You are really giving me the confidence needed.

  • James Wagner

    Reply Reply March 10, 2017

    Signing up for your program could not have been a more easy decision to make! Your videos are great and for me, the content is really broken down so I can understand it. Thank you for that!

  • Steven Bentley

    Reply Reply March 10, 2017

    I have been trying to tell my buddies to stop by your website to learn as much as I did. They are all jealous of the woman that I talk to each week. I tell them the answer and they are too lazy to take action. More for me!

    • Dr. David Tian

      Dr. David Tian

      Reply Reply March 14, 2017

      Ha, thanks, Steven! Great to hear!

  • John Rosenberg

    Reply Reply March 10, 2017

    Did anyone here ever have any issues meeting woman before you signed up? I have a hard time meeting woman no matter where I am. At first I thought it was because I was always in a bar or club, but I have the same problems at a game or restaurant as well.

  • Dillon Southerland

    Reply Reply March 10, 2017

    I have always been awkward around women. Even in high school it was a task just to talk to another girl without them making me like a total retard.

  • Christopher Morton

    Reply Reply March 10, 2017

    Thank you for the chance to learn from the best, David. There are so many things to know before meeting a woman and if you are prepared, like you said, it will be much easier. The books and other information that you provide is like gold in the hands of men like me. Thanks!

  • Robert Banks

    Reply Reply March 10, 2017

    Even for people that have been divorced for a short or long time, these videos are a great way to get back on the horse. David’s system will help you out for sure. Sign up and enjoy the ride!

  • Juan Koontz

    Reply Reply March 10, 2017

    This video series has been very enlightening for me. Thank you David for putting all of these great resources together for us to learn from.

  • George Shin

    Reply Reply March 10, 2017

    David, I have been wondering how many videos you are going to put into this series. Please let me know when a brand new video is released.

    • Dr. David Tian

      Dr. David Tian

      Reply Reply March 14, 2017

      Hey George, there are four videos total in this series. You can which videos are coming up by looking at the preview thumbnails below this video and in the sidebar next to the comments.

  • Ian

    Reply Reply March 17, 2017

    Cool man can’t wait for the next one

  • James

    Reply Reply March 30, 2017

    Hey man, I’ve read a lot of pickup material and as much as there are some good stuff out there, this by far stands out for its absolute simplicity! Cuts straight to the chase, without the chase. Thanks

  • Anonymous

    Reply Reply April 7, 2017

    am very happy thanks

  • t.k.

    Reply Reply April 7, 2017

    This is not entirely new and it applies not only to women! to everything! if you want to achieve something, you should be able to clearly see yourself achieving it!

  • Rick

    Reply Reply April 13, 2017

    Great stuff; after 2 marriages and 20 years of pussification I am finally re-attaching my balls and feeling like a man again, thanks David.

    Where is the 4th video ???

  • Tommy Müller

    Reply Reply May 5, 2017

    My goal is, be with beautiful girls. Share my flat with beautiful woman and sleep with this girls and share interests like meditation and traveling together.

  • Thomas

    Reply Reply June 15, 2017

    Hi David,

    I noticed in your video of how to start conversations with women using “I saw you standing over here doing X and I wanted to tell you that…..I think you are…..X…..and I wanted to meet you”. Would this be considered a cold approach and if so is it an exception? Thank you


  • Khairul

    Reply Reply July 20, 2017

    Will this work for short men? Hot women in my country only date taller guys.

  • Matthew

    Reply Reply July 21, 2017

    This sounds great 🙂 cant wait to see if it works

  • Tyler

    Reply Reply August 15, 2017

    Hey David!
    I have aspects I understand about the dao state but I still think you have thought most of this thorough. O find myself becoming a lot of women’s friends but not getting with the one I hope to be with. You have given me hope though that my relaxed state can get me with a partner that loves me and interests me 🙂

  • Sebastien

    Reply Reply September 2, 2017

    Sounds very much like the power of attraction/intention (Feu Dr. Wayne Dyer). Looking forward to hear some more 🙂

  • Jordan

    Reply Reply September 14, 2017

    Hi David!

    I am really intrigued by this video on Dao because for myself I have been reading ancient Chinese philosophy for years too and I never know I can applied it this way in life ! The “Zen state” that Buddhism evolved in China was similar or in fact on a higher level than Dao in my own opinion!

  • Geoff

    Reply Reply September 20, 2017

    Hi David

    I am also intrigued by this video. Because I alway thought that the reason why women turn away from me is because my blank face like the face I walk in public with on my own is a sort of serious look. Now I’m starting to think it has to do with my emotions. I mainly keep my emotions hidden from everyone because I had a hard time when I was a kid. So I tend to be one of those men that are extremely cautious and observant when it comes to women. But I will try the steps in the 3 videos you posted to see if any thing changes.

    Thanks for posting such helpful videos for us men who aren’t great with women.

  • Gerald Heck

    Reply Reply September 22, 2017

    Dr David my outcome is to find a good woman who will eventually be my wife.

  • Narindra

    Reply Reply October 13, 2017

    Hi David
    I wish I met you many years ago so I surely didn’t have so muh problem getting out and hooking with women! Your experience is valuable and I’m sure it can help me be creative in my love life. thanks

  • Bailey

    Reply Reply January 18, 2018

    I was already doing essentially what Dr. Tian says to do in this videobefore I watched it, and it isn’t helping at all. I do not feel confident, and I am certainly not entering any Dao state. Anyway, I think confidence is grossly overrated. Every time I’ve been confident or optimistic, Things have turned out very poorly for me.

  • Marc

    Reply Reply January 27, 2018

    Seems interesting so far. I’m ready to quit dinking around, and get this part of my life handled. Now, to save up for the Platinum Partnership. The only thing which is a bit bothersome is that the videos are streamed out slowly, because I want to get started right away. Guess I’ll just have to hurry up and wait for everyone else to join.

  • Bipan pal

    Reply Reply January 30, 2018

    thanks David

  • Anonymous

    Reply Reply February 27, 2018

    David, your such a pathetic loser. You devote your life to helping men pick up women. I can’t think of anything more pathetic. There’s children homeless and starving and this is your focus. If I personally ever meet you in person I will smash your balls against a curb and crush those bitches so you can never seduce another stupid bitch again.

    • David S. R.

      Reply Reply March 1, 2018

      Ha, ha you should go more in to his material, that is not at all what he is about.
      He actually put down conventional PUA’s. He praise himself on helping men living better, fuller and more rich lives 🙂

      I have by now gone through maybe two three hours of his material, so I don’t claim to be an expert, but I really like what I hear, and I can tell you he really comes of sincere, and good at heart.

      I am married, and we have our ups and downs, but I really think that his material is useful, and can help me on my way to live a successful life! He have relationship material also in case you didn’t know 🙂

  • Bipan pal

    Reply Reply February 27, 2018

    I have not got the link of next video in email.

  • Cedrique

    Reply Reply February 28, 2018

    To the “ Anonymous “ poster :
    Do not use homeless /starving children in other countries, as an excuse for your obvious jealousy of Dr. David and his amazing work.
    Jealousy and anger are weaknesses . This is a reality check for you son . Why would you submit that type of post? Is it because you feel inadequate as a man ? Why don’t you work on yourself, and try to improve , instead of being that “ online keyboard tough guy” . So do you wear “ Tapout and Addidas “ t shirts when you go out ? Lol . You should take Dr David’s advice .

  • Giorgos Pappas

    Reply Reply August 17, 2018

    Although the core principle of your videos could ‘ve been summed up in 3 minutes, you have a talent in storytelling so I enjoy the whole of it

  • Phil

    Reply Reply August 27, 2018

    Couldn’t this be counterproductive to create a fantasy about what you have to live with a woman? Check please this study which that actually fantasizing about your goals could make you don´t be able to achieve it

  • Adam

    Reply Reply September 3, 2018

    I still don’t quite understand how you’re supposed to instill this method without “cold approaching” a woman. I mean don’t you have to at least approach woman in order to meet them and practice this method?

  • Adam

    Reply Reply September 3, 2018

    Also…. how is this different from so called “presence” different from so called “active listening”?

  • manolo

    Reply Reply December 22, 2018

    well david mine would be sitting on a desert island resort sipping cockails enjoying the sun with a woman hotter than the sun by my side.oh the little things in life. i could die a happy man if i could end up being in that moment. but as for your video again ive been in moments with women in the past where time stood still and the night went way to ive been there not downside comes from the women shortly after wanting to change everthing about you as a person. i cant do that i want to live true to myself as a man.

  • Nick

    Reply Reply February 5, 2019

    David, I like where this is going, and I look forward to the next video.

    My ideal endgame is seeing myself in what some may see as every guy’s dream. Messing around in the front yard of a beautiful house with a gorgeous, loving wife, while we play with our kids and pet dog, just living the dream.

  • Suede

    Reply Reply February 25, 2019

    I’m sort of confused though David. What do you mean stop cold approaching? Because if you’re not meeting women you already know say at work or the gym or in other places you regularly go you’re saying i shouldn’t go approach a random woman elsewhere? Say the clubs/bars, grocery store, coffee shop, other stores, restuarants etc., or are you trying to make us understand how to have a more quality interaction with women and connect with them more while at the same time figuring out if she’s your “ideal” woman?

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