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  • Greg F.

    Reply Reply March 3, 2017

    My brother is a wreck around women. What I love about this is your honesty. You aren’t trying to deceive women but compliment them and have men speak the way they should to them. I am going to e-mail him this video. I really want him to see it.

    • Alvin Martinez

      Reply Reply March 10, 2017

      I used to be the same way LOL. It took a lot of years, moving to a new state and just being around them all of the time in order for me to fight my demons and make things work. I am glad that I found these videos!

  • Brian Peters

    Reply Reply March 3, 2017

    You speak of having a connection using a play on words. You imply something and you see how she takes it. In most cases, it comes off as a compliment thus giving you her full attention. After you have this… What do you do exactly? I feel like I would just mess this up.

  • Jake

    Reply Reply March 3, 2017

    Consider me signed up! I can’t wait to see what the worksheet has to say. I watched all your videos and I am blown away by the amount of knowledge you have and how simple you put it. You are a very smart guy. You understand women.

  • Shawn M.

    Reply Reply March 3, 2017

    I know what it is like to give yourself and give all you have to only be rejected. I don’t think I would have ever been on a building looking down but feeling like I should be doing it, I felt that. It is amazing how much control will give to someone who isn’t asking for it.

  • Rick

    Reply Reply March 3, 2017

    I watched this video before and I honestly thought it was bs. I am not going to lie, it just sounded like something that would never work. Well, I ended up trying it with a woman I work with and we have been together now for 2 months. She has even said that she don’t know what I did differently, but she liked it.

  • Sabrina Peach

    Reply Reply March 3, 2017

    As a woman, I can see how and why this works. I don’t think it will work for every woman and if you are not a confident man, it may come off in a bad way. Either way, I think it is worth a try. I know a lot of women will call this “sweet talking” but this actually takes more thought and energy.

    • Danny Smith

      Reply Reply March 10, 2017

      Penny, thank you for stopping by here to leave your comment. I have always wondered if any females would stop by and let us guys know what they think about what David has to say. This is an eye opener for me and I hope things start to work out much better!

  • Average Joe

    Reply Reply March 3, 2017

    I’m not a great looking guy. I don’t have a great job, I’m not rich. I am an average Joe. I feel like this is the kind of thing that can’t work for me. How can an average looking man get very attractive women without looks or money? I am not sure…

  • Brendan

    Reply Reply March 3, 2017

    Emotional engagement is something I don’t think most men these days even know how to produce. I see a lot of younger men (I am in my 40s) walking around acting like they own the world. Sure, that cocky nature gets your women but not the kind of women you want to spend the rest of your life with.

  • Mike Darko

    Reply Reply March 3, 2017

    I am going to sign up for your free worksheet because I am simply curious. This sounds like something I read many years ago in a relationship book. The emotional connection and interaction is seldom seen with men and women these days, something has to change here.

  • Phil

    Reply Reply March 3, 2017

    Those women are distracting!! haha I don’t know how you stayed so focused. I am a very awkward guy. I like video games, I work from home networking servers, and I am not into the party scene. This being said, I hardly ever meet new women. Where can I actually go to try this technique out on one without coming off as a weirdo? I am nearing my 30’s and would like to find “the one” already.

  • Lucas

    Reply Reply March 3, 2017

    Super informative video! I can hardly wait to see the next one! And it’s very practical.

  • Christian

    Reply Reply March 3, 2017

    Could you actually film yourself while trying to pick up a woman? That would be really cool!

    • Jonathan

      Reply Reply March 3, 2017

      Yeah, I second this!

    • Caleb

      Reply Reply March 3, 2017

      Or you could at least do a “fake run” and just show us how it’s done. It doesn’t really have to be real or anything but seeing how you do it will probably help us all get better.

    • Harold Gonzalez

      Reply Reply March 10, 2017

      This is a great idea! Then we can all watch as he kicks some ass with the woman. But, how do you video this process without looking completely creepy?

  • Dylan

    Reply Reply March 3, 2017

    It’s so nice of you to share things about yourself and your experiences (good and bad). I really appreciate this!

  • Landon

    Reply Reply March 3, 2017

    When are you going to release the next video?

  • Gavin

    Reply Reply March 3, 2017

    Could you somehow help me handle rejections a little better? I’m really sad after this happens and I want to learn some tips on how to change this.

  • Tyler

    Reply Reply March 3, 2017

    I so wish you can help me. I feel so alone after my latest breakup and I just want to get over it and move on.

  • Isaac

    Reply Reply March 3, 2017

    You’ve dated a LOT of women! No wonder you’re so experienced!

    • Richard Johnson

      Reply Reply March 10, 2017

      Really?!?! That is great news for sure! I was on the fence about things like this and I always just thought woman were smarter than this. If you say it works then I am on board with both feet!

  • Luke

    Reply Reply March 3, 2017

    I’m not that good at getting women to go on dates with me so I really hope this will help.

  • ben

    Reply Reply March 5, 2017

    I genuinely belive that you can do anything, if you put your mind to it.

    • David Derosa

      Reply Reply March 10, 2017

      That is a good thing to live by. Put in the work and get the rewards. I personally believe that anything worth having is worth putting in some hard work to get.


    Reply Reply March 5, 2017

    I loove what you’ve done with these videos really awesome and helpful clips

  • Rick

    Reply Reply March 5, 2017

    I gotta say this, seeing those women in the background i have to say that you have a great taste in them. Count me in!!!!!!

  • Mark,

    Reply Reply March 5, 2017

    I’m just here to say that I really appreciate you for doing this for us, Thank you!

  • WIll

    Reply Reply March 5, 2017

    Man you truly are an Inspiration for me. Awesome brother.

  • Ryan

    Reply Reply March 5, 2017

    With a creative wit like yours you sir can count me in your program. I need some help ASAP!

  • Paul

    Reply Reply March 5, 2017

    How long will it take till i reach a decent level of self esteem and be good with women?

  • ROBB

    Reply Reply March 5, 2017

    MAN, i am grateful i found you. Needed this.

    • Richard Busick

      Reply Reply March 10, 2017

      There is something about his videos that really strike you full of confidence right? I feel the same way.

  • Niko

    Reply Reply March 5, 2017

    Cannot wait to try some of your stuff out. Looking forward to the program!!!

  • Starko

    Reply Reply March 5, 2017

    Signed up for that Worksheet! Does it come to my email/?

    • Martin Baker

      Reply Reply March 10, 2017

      You are going to be so happy that you did. Everything you need will be coming through your email! Good luck!

  • alex

    Reply Reply March 5, 2017

    I actually told couple of my friends about this program. We are definitley hyped

    • James

      Reply Reply March 5, 2017

      HYPENATION. Do you know when does it come out?

  • Nikolai

    Reply Reply March 5, 2017

    Does the program come in other launguages other than English?

  • IAN

    Reply Reply March 5, 2017

    Do we have a release date yet?

  • edd

    Reply Reply March 5, 2017

    Aweomse,helpful video. Loved it!!!!!!!!

  • Rhettt

    Reply Reply March 5, 2017

    You were ‘trending’ on reddit few hrs ago. just found ya. looking forward to more of these videos.

  • Милош

    Reply Reply March 6, 2017

    You like the supergirl because she is playful and because she feels intensely, dontcha? 😀

    • Raymond Keener

      Reply Reply March 10, 2017

      This helps, doesn’t it? I think that when you are going to hit on a girl, or at least just talk with her, you already have her picked out as one that you will gel with, right?

  • Glenn Woods

    Reply Reply March 10, 2017

    Wow, once again, I am amazed by the content of your videos. You do a great job getting your point across and it really makes me feel confident in my approach to woman! Thank you so much!

  • Erik Cornell

    Reply Reply March 10, 2017

    There is a lot to learn about woman and if you weren’t already thinking about it, where in the world makes a difference! The demographic is key and in some places where I have lived, the woman are hard to break because they have “seen everything” when it comes to men and the ones that are trying to pick them up. Thanks, David for the videos series!

  • Felton Lewis

    Reply Reply March 10, 2017

    Trust David. I have been along for the ride for a long time now and the videos have taught me so much! You are NOT going to be disappointed at all. Keep it up and you will see the results!

    • Bob Walter

      Reply Reply March 10, 2017

      100%. I agree with you Felton. This is one of the best video series that I have even seen put together about this topic.

  • Junior Swanson

    Reply Reply March 10, 2017

    I am just not sure. I never have good luck. I can get woman to date and things like that, but for some reason I am not able to get them to hang around long term. What do you think it could be? I am stumped!

  • Francisco Eckman

    Reply Reply March 10, 2017

    Awesome! David, you do such a great job in your videos and even though you have beautiful woman walking all over the place, I was able to pay attention and get some good notes down ? Thank you for that!

  • Seymour Spencer

    Reply Reply March 10, 2017

    Being able to find out what a woman wants before she says or does anything would be awesome! Since that is not really something easy for ALL woman, David’s videos are the next best thing ?

  • Curtis Lambert

    Reply Reply March 10, 2017

    Getting that emotional trigger is a huge part of getting confidence from the females that you are trying to reach. Thanks for that tip!

  • Scott Short

    Reply Reply March 10, 2017

    When it comes to making videos that help a guy out, David is the best. When it comes to watching them, I am the champ! 🙂

  • Robert Duncan

    Reply Reply March 10, 2017

    Your videos are very informative. They are leading men down the right path and teaching them how to do it in a respectful way. Thanks!

  • David Renfro

    Reply Reply March 10, 2017

    Love your videos. I really hope to see more of them very soon!

  • Rick O

    Reply Reply April 12, 2017

    Incredible information, easy to follow and use.

  • Anonymous

    Reply Reply May 4, 2017

    While thinking positively is a good thing, I’m skeptical that this alone can help with women. As awful as having to do cold approach is, it seems to be the only way to meet the women you REALLY want. Most women just don’t approach men, period.

  • Isaac

    Reply Reply August 14, 2017

    It has been my thought my whole life that there is something wrong with me when it comes to women. Never have I been in a situation where I have felt in control or that a women would do anything to please me as I often see around me with friends. I’m really hoping that some of this information will change that and help me own my life in regards to women. It’s still hard for me to wrap my head around some of the things as they are counter intuitive to me. What I have been doing thus far has had no luck. And there is this girl I’m really into right now that I want to use this new information on but don’t want it to seem forced……

  • Allan

    Reply Reply August 14, 2017

    In the videos “No Mind” and “The Naming Effect” you talk about the importance of presence as well as describe what presence is. Do you have some practical steps that I can use to practice, improve, and enhance my presence?

  • jonathan

    Reply Reply August 21, 2017

    So in the naming effect video do you recommend any type of open ended statements or questions to say before you start name traits the other person may have? This naming effect sounds a lot like cold reading that I learned in one of my improv classes.

  • Michael

    Reply Reply September 4, 2017

    I was doubtful at first but I had to try it… It worked! Look forward to watching more of your masterpieces!

  • Anonymous

    Reply Reply September 5, 2017

    Every video I have watched blows my mind. David all of these things you teach are so simple. Alot of this really is just being a good soul. It really is all about emotions, in which people forget they have or are to affraid to use them. I had burried mine away for a long time. You really know how to bring them out in a person. No one could ever bring them out fully. Since, I have been watching and learning from you. I really feel like I am waking up. The things I do lately are different now. Things seem to be getting smoother. Just a thought here. If everyone on this planet were able to obtain these same emotions of compassion, caring, giving without receiving. Exetera. Thinking of the bigger picture. Would this not end violence, hate and war. Then allow world piece. Would this not bring us all together. Thanks Derek,

  • blue3shiv

    Reply Reply September 11, 2017

    Good info. just wanted to show my support!

  • Roy

    Reply Reply September 26, 2017

    Sometimes I feel more stupid than the average person. I have taken the Dale Carnegie course (I am naturally an introvert and judgmental; especially of myself) and others to help me talk and work with people at a higher level, to manage and lead teams. It never dawned on me that the same personnel motivating techniques I had learned as a manager could be used in such a personal matter.

  • Malachy Quinn

    Reply Reply October 2, 2017

    This has so much synergy and will work well with The Forer Effect and Barnum statements! And of course General Cold Reading techniques, time delay, Feedback loop while incorporating a Yes – set! <3 Oh and One of your other videos on embedded double entendres hidden in common nonchalant speech!

  • John

    Reply Reply October 3, 2017

    Lick your video I like to see more

  • Binu ghayle

    Reply Reply December 15, 2017

    I love u and ur containts i found new dimensions thanks man.
    N someguy blocked me in Facebook group. Please open me there thanks

  • Detlef Abels

    Reply Reply January 16, 2018

    Well David finally, I see a person with raw honesty in you. That’s gold to me. My philosophy is honesty and that means that I have more of an affiliation with your principles. I’m only a humble carpenter and have not had the training of university as you had but respect the teachings you are acting on. Thank you! Stay cool! cheers Detlef

    • Dr. David Tian

      Dr. David Tian

      Reply Reply January 17, 2018

      Thanks so much, Detlef!

  • Cody

    Reply Reply January 16, 2018

    ‘For example, “You get the sense that you’re an adventurous soul! I like that. [Smile] So what
    drink do you recommend I get after a long, hard work week?” ‘

    Shouldn’t that be ‘I get the sense’ … ? (in the PDF)

  • Bipan pal

    Reply Reply January 27, 2018

    thanks man

  • Marc

    Reply Reply January 27, 2018

    So if we’re not in the hell of Cold Approaching women, then what’s the best way to warm them up? I’ve tried the “let them approach you” method, and it only gets you so far– for all the recent social movements (#metoo, Time’s Up, etc.), women still want you to take the lead, be the man, do all the work, etc. How do we take action, without turning them off along the way?

  • Shawn

    Reply Reply February 2, 2018

    Very honest and open advice.

  • wesley kelly

    Reply Reply February 6, 2018


  • wesley kelly

    Reply Reply February 8, 2018

    How would use this in a real situation. Would I approach a woman an say that or would I just found this too a friend who I want to pursue??

  • Lucho

    Reply Reply February 11, 2018

    I’ve always heard that 90% of game is inner game and 10% is outer game, but to get results while you work on improving your inner game you should “fake it until you make it” mindset, and this not only applies to picking up women but in becoming a better person in general and having greater success in life.

  • Anonymous

    Reply Reply March 9, 2018

    This video changed myself. I give up cold approach. Awesome maaan! Waiting for the next video.

  • Deepak

    Reply Reply March 10, 2018

    This video is awesome. I promise you that I’ll use this technique not only in dating but also to other people in a positive way. I’m going to make everyone around me feel positive. Because I become happy when I see they are happy.

  • Raymond

    Reply Reply March 31, 2018

    I am working on myself not for the six-pack and Ferrari but to show I can be independent and take care of myself to show her that I’m not a bum and to where she won’t have to take care of me full-time. I’m looking for where we can meet each other in the middle.

  • Jose Barron

    Reply Reply April 8, 2018

    Dude, I never knew that it was “that” simple!!! Man sometime I would use this but I never knew it could be applied like this. Aww man? just thinking how much easier it would have been back then. Thanks for the advice David Tian

  • David

    Reply Reply August 11, 2018

    I’m truly sorry to hear about you contemplating suicide, and I’m glad to hear you are out of that dark place. I hope you remain safely outside of that dark place. You’re a good guy, you’re trying to help people. No one is ever worth taking your life away. I want you to promise me and everyone else here that you will never contemplate suicide again. Your life is precious, don’t waste it.

    That being said, I’m glad you didn’t drag The Social Man’s name through the mud on this video. Because as I said, if all you are getting out of The Social Man is that I need to do cold approaches, then you’re really missing the most awesome part about The Social Man.

    I want to highlight again what Nick talked about in the course unbreakable. That’s real self esteem talk, that’s the talk that makes you think, ya I want to be the best Version of myself. It’s this mentality, that is the true essence of the social man.

    Like I said before I’m not trying to be a salesman here, but I recognize their value, their videos have brought value to my life, I have undergone interpersonal growth that I wouldn’t have had access to without really thinking about and trying to understand their message on a deeper level. I’m not talking about memorization here.

    I’m talking about truly listening to what they are talking about, the ideas unattached to the person, something every human being can relate to and make their own.

    I’ve got complete respect for the courses at the social man, because picking up girls, is not the sole message of that community. It’s about making yourself a better person. Someone women and even other men want to be around.

    I still have respect for you from the social man, but your segment seemed to focus more on the pick up part and getting laid part, which don’t get me wrong, is extremely important. But maybe you are unaware of the material contained in unbreakable. I really recommend taking a look at it for yourself and keeping an open mind to the ideas themselves.

    I wish you the best of success man
    And as my brother Christian would say “rock on”

  • Josh

    Reply Reply August 14, 2018

    Number one, as explained in the first video David released in this series is to have no mind while in presence of the female you are interacting with, meaning to have your entire presence focused on engaging with her NOTHING outside of that, THEN one presance is fully there lead the emotions using such as the naming approach explained in this video.

  • Adam

    Reply Reply August 31, 2018

    Im kind of with Wesley. Im looking for a little more understanding of how you would use this principle of naming effect without using a version of what feels like the cold approach.

  • Anonymous

    Reply Reply September 30, 2018

    Thank you for posting the videos David, they have each been very insightful for me and are eye openers! I was very close to following the path of just doing cold approaches as society has been telling me to do or pointing me in that direction. I’ve dabbled a lot in the whole be myself concept/confidence and am very big on self development, becoming the best version of myself. It’s been a great journey but I do acknowledge that I have been having a major breakdown when it comes to women despite that my health has been decent and for my career as well. I’m glad that I am able to put a stop to all these myths and move forward with these mindsets you’re sharing with us. Thanks again and keep it up! I look forward to the next post 😀

  • manolo

    Reply Reply December 18, 2018

    hi david the naming effect is something ive done in the past and had success with whithout even knowing i was doing it it would appear i just need to get out more, but the way you put it across i can see how easy it is to do. All you need to do is get the womans emotions boiling over, with yourself as her flame. smart man you are!! said like yoda!!

  • Hector

    Reply Reply February 11, 2019

    Hey David, thank you for sharing this wonderful information. As I am a shy dude, getting into the flow of approaching and getting better with women, and this is a perfect way for me to go. I truly appreciate this, and thank you soooooooooooooooo much once again 🙏

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