What Do Women Really Want From Men?

Hey, it’s Dr. David Tian,

After you watch this video, I want you to promise me you’ll give up the "cold approach" path for good.

After over 10 years of pioneering work in the dating advice industry, I’ve come to the honest conclusion that.... going up to hundreds (or thousands) of women doesn’t just "not work"... it will eat your soul and make you worse off than you were before...


Learning to "cold approach" is downright PAINFUL. And it offers only the slightest hope of success in the end.

The whole pick up artist journey is so long... with so few examples of success...

...that it would be as if I handed you a stack of DVD’s of an HBO show and told you “The first 9 seasons are awful but the last episode of the 10th season is really good. Just watch them in order!”

You’re not going to sit through nine whole seasons you hate no matter how awesome I tell you the final episode is.

And if you DO stick to endless approaches, then God help you... because I’ve met those people, and they tend to come out very weird... to the point where your friends stop hanging out with you because you’ve picked up so many strange habits.

Luckily, there's a better way...

...which can be done from the comfort of your armchair... works extremely fast... and doesn’t even require you to try to “trick a woman into liking you,” which is what most guys (and coaches) are trying to do, whether they fully understand it or not.

I recorded this special video, teaching you this brand new way I’ve found to *allow* women to fall for you effortlessly...

All it takes is just passively watching a couple videos and trying a few easy exercises.

You don’t need any “balls” to do this or even any confidence really... though by the end of the process, you'll be brimming with self-confidence.

This is the first of a series of four videos I’m recording on this, so you don’t want to get left behind. Watch this right now, and I’ll be in touch soon.

Best, David Tian, Ph.D.

P.S. – Very important to make sure you watch until the end because that’s where I reveal the first great secret of how to make a woman insanely interested in you.

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To Do Now: Watch the entire video carefully, and then leave us a comment!


  • James O.

    Reply Reply March 3, 2017

    I did this as well. I spent a good 5 years in my late 20’s and early 30’s acting like a 20 year old. I was trying to be hip and young. I was going to clubs, drinking, trying to be the man I thought women wanted. The truth is, most women don’t want that. The ones who want real relationships don’t.

    • Josh

      Reply Reply August 11, 2018

      This is good info David came with in this video. Your mind is focused on so many other thing s like are ‘am I impressing her’ , ‘will I get sex with her’, ‘should I ask for her number now’ just some example of the ‘many mind’s we have going on when interacting with women which is actually distraction from being present.

    • Boop

      Reply Reply October 28, 2018

      Whatchu talkin bout Willis?

  • David

    Reply Reply March 3, 2017

    Ya know… I had a great relationship, or so I thought. I was with the woman I thought I would marry. We were engaged. One thing she would always say to me is “you don’t listen” and I never really thought what she meant by that. One day, she told me she was done and gave me back the ring. You are right. Women want to know they are heard and appreciated.

  • Matt Williams

    Reply Reply March 3, 2017

    I don’t know how to be in the present moment with anything and I never considered it to be an issue with my dating life until now. I am mind blown. You basically just answered all the questions I have been asking the last 10 years. Thank you so much for this. I will be sure to check out your other videos.

  • Jessica

    Reply Reply March 3, 2017

    THANK YOU! I have spent many years dating men who just didn’t get it. I just wanted them to be “THERE” and they weren’t. I had no way of knowing how to express it but you hit the nail on the head. Guys – listen to him. He gets women!

    • Steve

      Reply Reply August 8, 2017

      So your telling at age 50 just be in the present moment and you can score countless ladies ?

  • Alan

    Reply Reply March 3, 2017

    Am I the only one who find those women distracting? Talk about not being in the moment. LOL! I like what you have to say here in this video. It really makes a lot of sense. I may be younger but I never really understood girls until now. They don’t just need attention, they need you to be present in every moment you spend with them.

  • Kenny D.

    Reply Reply March 3, 2017

    I didn’t actually come here because I had dating issues. I am a married man. I wanted to know what I was doing wrong with my own wife and this video actually did help me. I never realized the importance of actually “living in the moment” with another person till now. Thank you for this.

    • Edmond Martinez

      Reply Reply August 25, 2019

      Well I found the video interesting. I wonder how this program can work in my situation because it seems to be unique, though i’m a lot like the guys he mentions here. I dont want to manipulate a woman, I am not looking to date thousands, just one. And I have no roadmap to get me there. Maybe this will be a good start, but I dont know.

  • Micheal Shelby

    Reply Reply March 3, 2017

    I have social anxiety and find it hard to focus on who I am with, specially when I am first getting to know them. This is even worse with women. I have been on dates, I have had pointless one night stands, but my relationships never flourished with women and now I understand why.

  • Paul

    Reply Reply March 3, 2017

    My father always told me it isn’t enough to respect the woman you want in your life, you have to let her know you value her time or she will lose interest. I am a good looking guy who could always get the women I wanted but always failed to keep them. You basically said what my father told me and it has been a wake- up call for me.

  • Matt B.

    Reply Reply March 3, 2017

    When you say being “present” in the moment, do you mean that we are to fully give every ounce of attention to the lady we are with? I am confused on this because I have done that and women seem to not like to be the center of attention all the time. Some have even said I was creepy lol

  • Nick

    Reply Reply March 3, 2017

    Beautifully said. You are a man who understands women and your confidence shows this. You even give your full attention to the camera so flawlessly. I will continue to read and watch your other help pages. I have a feeling that my luck with women will change for good.

  • Nathan

    Reply Reply March 3, 2017

    What can you do if it’s hard for you to hear a “no” from a women? Whenever I hear it I get upset and quickly lose confidence in myself and can’t proceed.

  • Logan

    Reply Reply March 3, 2017

    I’ve had to learn the hard way how much women value listening. I wasn’t listening to my last girlfriend so she got tired of it and left. I’m trying to not make the same mistake again.

  • Christopher

    Reply Reply March 3, 2017

    The no mind state is something I do without even knowing. I just naturally knew this needed to be done when with a woman ever since I was a kid. Looking forward to improving this after I join your program.

  • John

    Reply Reply March 3, 2017

    It’s hard to believe you can attract girls after watching some videos…

  • Ryan

    Reply Reply March 3, 2017

    Will this work for someone with low self esteem?

  • Gabriel

    Reply Reply March 3, 2017

    I so wish I had the guts to ask a girl out but I’m too much of a chicken to try.

  • Jackson

    Reply Reply March 3, 2017

    What’s up with all those women hanging around you? Are they really your girlfriends? If so, high five man!

  • Joe

    Reply Reply March 3, 2017

    Where can I sign up to get women like those in your videos?

  • Tyler

    Reply Reply March 3, 2017

    I want to learn how to attract girls, how to talk to them and get them to like me. Can you help?

  • OneGuy

    Reply Reply March 3, 2017

    Very cool video, David! Keep them coming!

    • Keith Patterson

      Reply Reply March 10, 2017

      One of the best things about David’s video is the fact that there is more than one 🙂 There is so much information in these videos I cannot sell them enough to people. My friends are excited to learn more!

  • Prema

    Reply Reply March 5, 2017

    Great tip at the end Dr Tian, looking forward to your program.

  • Hugh

    Reply Reply March 5, 2017

    Impressive perspective David.

  • Pat

    Reply Reply March 5, 2017

    Thats an intersting point of view when you talk about the “NO MIND STATE” seems belivable. Will check out the program for sure!

  • Stu

    Reply Reply March 5, 2017

    Damn, i would’ve never thought of this stuff in a bilion years!!!!!!

  • Adam H.

    Reply Reply March 5, 2017

    Man, this is more helpful than most people realize. Crazyy

  • Auggie

    Reply Reply March 5, 2017

    You should be proud of yourself honestly…. This is mindblowing…

  • hector

    Reply Reply March 5, 2017

    on a scale of 1/10 that tip is 15!!!!!!!!!!! wow

  • Chriss

    Reply Reply March 5, 2017

    man this might not seem true , but you seriously are making a difference to me and im sure to alot of people.

  • Floyd

    Reply Reply March 5, 2017

    Being around person you care makes everything better, not just physially but mentally too. Nice message btw.

    • John Pena

      Reply Reply March 10, 2017

      I agree with you Floyd. Being all around the best person you can be is the best way to live your life.

  • Robbie

    Reply Reply March 5, 2017

    I remember when my father once said to me “When you’re not afraid to be yourself is when you’re most incredible.” Everytime i feel insecure i always remember that.

  • KEV

    Reply Reply March 5, 2017

    Man that clip was so inspiring i kinda want to try some of tips now.

  • Ali

    Reply Reply March 5, 2017

    Everyone gets knocked down sometimes, but you always get back up and keep going. Noone is born perfect, and i think David is giving out the same message that you can get better in time.

  • Matt

    Reply Reply March 5, 2017

    The great thing about this programms is that you’re always learning new things and trying to better yourself, which is awesome!!!!

  • jim

    Reply Reply March 5, 2017

    dude, you got me hooked on this program. Count me in!!!

  • BEN

    Reply Reply March 5, 2017

    I have some incredible skills of turning random conversations into awkward ones really quick. Im really hoping this will make it better.

  • Joe

    Reply Reply March 9, 2017

    Can’t wait for the next video! Also, along with the Presence concept, is this applicable with Mindfulness?

  • Brian K Mogenhan

    Reply Reply March 9, 2017

    It’s true what u are saying my fence or my ex fence said I don’t do what u said wow I did not know I was doing this

  • Earl Garcia

    Reply Reply March 10, 2017

    This is awesome information! You are damn right that the “cold” approach is not one that is easy to take!

  • Roger Grant

    Reply Reply March 10, 2017

    When you are talking about changing the way that I talk to women, I am totally interested in knowing more. I have not had great success in this field and getting ready for your next video is the first thing on my list.

  • Manuel Doyle

    Reply Reply March 10, 2017

    I can barely even walk across a room to meet up with a random girl let along actually make a conversation one that is worth being in. I am hoping to learn more from your video series!

  • Larry Silvestre

    Reply Reply March 10, 2017

    All of the men here have a real issue and it looks like they are willing to admit the fact that they need help. I am one of those types and am here to get help. I hope this goes the right way for me.

  • Clyde Moore

    Reply Reply March 10, 2017

    David to the rescue! I have caught a few of your videos before and I learn a lot. I am excited for the remaining videos in your series!

    • Bob Wirth

      Reply Reply March 10, 2017

      There is so much good information here! David really breaks things down so that anyone can learn it on a whim and the end results are so nice!

  • Eugene Odell

    Reply Reply March 10, 2017

    David! I have always had issues with meeting woman and as you call it the “cold approach”. Your system seems to be spot on and really gives me more confidence that I need to meet woman that I normally would feel are out of my league!

  • Jason Clark

    Reply Reply March 10, 2017

    Doing things by the “seat of your pants” is how I have been having success. Of course, the tips that you provide are something that I keep in mind, but that is not the only thing that I attempt when trying to pick up attractive woman like you do ?

  • David Johnson

    Reply Reply March 10, 2017

    When it comes to meeting woman that I am not already friends with, I have a lot of trouble. I am hoping this system you are providing to us is going to help me. Do you think you can help me?

    • Dr. David Tian

      Dr. David Tian

      Reply Reply March 14, 2017

      Hey David, yes, of course. I hope you don’t have trouble “meeting” people you’re already friends with LOL. Of course these secrets will help you attract women you don’t yet know!

      • Stephen Rougeou

        Reply Reply November 24, 2017

        This is good advice but what if I already dated the woman and messed it up and want to get her back again

  • Jason Hoyle

    Reply Reply March 10, 2017

    We should all be excited for what David has to share with us. Do yourself a favor, as well as your friends and share this on your favorite social media channels. I have done this and have friends coming up to me and thanking me for the links!

    • Dr. David Tian

      Dr. David Tian

      Reply Reply March 14, 2017

      Thanks so much for sharing, Jason!

  • David Vaca

    Reply Reply March 10, 2017

    You know something, David? I have read and listened to others talk about “tricking” the woman, but what I have found is that they are onto your game before you even get it started ? If they are getting “tricked” by you then you need to think about the kind of woman you are after!

  • Robert Moore

    Reply Reply March 10, 2017

    Let me tell you what. There is a little thing that is called respect and even though what you are telling us to do seems a little edgy, which I like, there is still respect involved here. Thanks for that!

  • Frank Sievers

    Reply Reply March 10, 2017

    There are plenty of tricks and tips that you can learn while searching online for things like this. I am going to keep looking around and take what you have taught me along with. Thank you for the info!

  • Juan Thomas

    Reply Reply March 10, 2017

    I can vouch for anything that David says! His system is fool proof and really is going to give you what you need by the end of the day. Having confidence is key and if you are not 100% on that, watch these videos and get ready to take notes! ?

  • Joshua Brookes

    Reply Reply March 10, 2017

    If you cannot keep eye contact you are losing the battle before it even begins. Just remember that you are trying to show the woman that she is your world. That will help you keep focus!

    • Neil

      Reply Reply September 3, 2018

      The idea of showing the girl that she is your world sounds like a good way for me. Thank you

  • John West

    Reply Reply March 10, 2017

    Listening is a skill and one that makes a HUGE difference in a relationship. If you cannot listen to anyone else but yourself, you are going to be alone for a long time. Thanks for the vid.

  • Greg Colin

    Reply Reply March 10, 2017

    You produce great video content David! If people are not able to get the message and change the way they do things around women, they are blockheads! Great job!

  • James

    Reply Reply March 10, 2017

    Need to know more

  • Brian K Mogenhan

    Reply Reply March 11, 2017

    It worked she is back as my fence u are great thank you I can’t Waite to see the other videos

  • Anonymous

    Reply Reply March 13, 2017

    bought “the power of now” a few days ago and that is all about presence. its such an important concept

  • Thaeta

    Reply Reply March 13, 2017

    I’ve enjoyed this video although I’ll be 33 in May and I can get women to talk to me but I always get #friendzoned. Now if I could change that outcome, that’d be great!

  • Michael

    Reply Reply March 18, 2017

    Present is this by my definition. People listen to respond not to understand.

  • dylan lin

    Reply Reply March 20, 2017

    cant wait for more videos

  • Rick Olivas

    Reply Reply April 12, 2017

    I need more!

  • Sam

    Reply Reply April 13, 2017

    Hey David,

    Thanks for this. I discovered you through Chase’s podcast. As you know these are hardcore cold approachers. I can’t help but wonder: do you find Chase, or Varoon, or others “very weird” as you say for people who sticked it out?

    I’d recently started the journey of day gaming. 10 weeks in, hundreds of rejections down, but I’ve already sensed a dramatic change in myself, and my dating life. I am young, very successful in my career, with a beautiful and loving wife, the most amazing kind I can ever wish for. But sexual desire has always pushed me to want more pussies in my life. Having had enough banging hookers and colleagues risking setting my career alight I recently thought, fuck it, I see more beautiful girls on one train journey than I do at work the entire day. Thence I hired a coach, and the voyage of cold-approaching begins.

    Your story resonates as I’m also Chinese born, and I struggled with my cultural backgrounds and nerdiness in a Western country. You’re undoubtedly successful but I’m perplexed as to how one can “think” their way to success. All my life I’ve believed that actions will always solve problems and everything I have today is through actions. Lots and lots of actions. The winners are the doers and losers are the ones sit and think. I must be missing a point here.

    Perhaps invincible is targeting audience that want a girl or keep a girl rather than us vagina hunters? But again it’s one for building inner game. Perhaps we just need to sign up and see.

    Only 3% sticks out, yet I intend to be the 3%. Hearing you saying people turned out weird and lose their friends is a first timer and it’s daunting. Not sure whether I’m walking a dangerous path here.

    Good work and thanks!

  • Ryan

    Reply Reply April 20, 2017

    I am in my early 30s and just recently got out of a relationship and I am so glad I found Dr.David and Christian when I did before I went down a horrible sprimal of rejection. Thanks guys. I am happier with myself and haveven been having much better success in my social life.

  • Terry

    Reply Reply May 18, 2017


    Great video. I totally agree. I also have a bit of an academic background in listening, so I understand the power and validation that presence brings. I have a situation where a woman at work who has shown interest in me has recently brought up that she has a boyfriend.I felt misled and have stopped contact for a week while I consider my next step. Interested to hear how your ideas can help. Thanks!

  • Matthew

    Reply Reply July 13, 2017

    Belief is paramount 🙂

  • Roberto

    Reply Reply July 20, 2017


  • Joe

    Reply Reply August 8, 2017

    Funny how your story about the girl you liked and only date you had that year is eerily similar to what just happened. Now what’s the cost for the other videos gonna be.

  • allen

    Reply Reply August 8, 2017

    I have done the whole club thing. I was a bartender in Reno, and, in Hawaii. Had lots of success with ladies. Looking back, I wish that I had put a ring on some of those fingers. But i was stuck in a certain mindframe. Now that I am 50, I am having a hard time finding qhat I really need, and want. Friendship, intimacy, and real love. I need this series more than anything. Thisis the first that seems to be exactly what I need. I will be buying

  • Gene

    Reply Reply August 8, 2017

    Just turned 43, Asian and divorcing. Like David said I turned into a clubnut and out almost every weekend and or on my days off hitting the local clubs and bars only to be disappointed not able to truly connect with anyone I find attracted to. The ones that I seem to attract are not very alluring to me meaning fat chicks or sociopaths. Women at work are also not a good idea cuz I got burnt and labeled as a player. I’m just looking for that one girl who gets me and vise versa. I watched a bunch of yours videos but I’m starting to lose faith

  • Bo

    Reply Reply August 9, 2017

    Very clean and direct advice, and you do it free, that alone sets you above the game.Thank you.

  • Andrew

    Reply Reply August 11, 2017

    Ya but c’mon, women will never approach a guy or make the first move, well almost never

  • Randy Chinn

    Reply Reply August 11, 2017


    That was some video. I thoroughly enjoyed it!!!

    Very thought provoking… I look forward to more videos of yours.

    Randy Chinn

  • Tom

    Reply Reply August 13, 2017

    Hey David…having studied Zen for awhile, I understand what you are describing about being fully present in the now, where all things are possible. What I wonder, and hope your videos and product will elucidate more is how that will translate into attracting women like moths to the flame. Without having to go randomly approach hundreds of strangers and try to force a connection. Where will the women come from?
    I wonder…

    thanks for your insight!

  • Doug

    Reply Reply August 15, 2017

    Hello David.
    As a divorced man in my early 50’s it is hard to meet women. If I act young I’m “just weird”. If I go to bars I’m considered “creepy”. Online it’s hard to know what to say just to get a date set up. How will being “in the present” help with those things?
    But I do like the idea you are putting forward. As an ex councillor we would use “mirroring”, or “say it back to me, what you heard” to see if one was actually listening. How do I be “in the present” and have a chance with the younger women I’m attracted to(30-45 yr olds)? (Sometimes even younger :))
    Thanks mate for your help and advice.

  • Michael Stephenson

    Reply Reply August 27, 2017

    David, I can’t wait for your new training program. I’ve bought a lot of training programs and hope I will be financially ready to get this one. I look forward to your new videos.

  • Derek Busta

    Reply Reply September 1, 2017

    That was a great video David. It is very informative. I really think most men no this. There just lazy or don’t care that much to be present. You notice it more in the beginning of relationship. Then people get comfortable and lazy.

  • Miguel

    Reply Reply September 8, 2017

    Sounds interesting, it makes sense. Please
    forgive me if Im a skeptic. I guess seeing only one part of it is not enough, but now Im curious.

  • Terry

    Reply Reply September 14, 2017

    I’m curious as to what could make life easier for me when it comes to women. I’m single anyway so what have I got to lose?

  • Gerald Heck

    Reply Reply September 15, 2017

    Dr David i meet someone that cheated on me 3 times i thought she was awesome when i first met her 4 years ago she showed me a great 1 half years but then she used me and cheated on me and had her whole famliy live with me while she took off when i met her i was going through a divorce. Then i helped her again because the guy that she cheated on me with abused her mentally and physically so me being the nice guy helped her out got her out of that situation things were good for a while but then she cheated on me again and of course turned everything on me that i was the problem i really loved this woman but everybody else did not like her said that she was using me well they were right i lost everything because of her and had that guy move in 3 days later after i found out my mom had Cancer Dr David. I too have given up because i lost it all what do i do to get that presents again in women. Gerald


    Reply Reply September 26, 2017

    Very interesting! I am ready to watch the next video.

  • John

    Reply Reply September 29, 2017

    I’m waiting for the next video I now you gatta be all there with them

  • Ray

    Reply Reply October 1, 2017

    I’d like to check out the next video.

  • Otmar

    Reply Reply October 7, 2017

    presence – no mind – OK, I have experienced that eye contact is powerful; but then: what NEXT ?
    Watching your videos cannot be enough. What do you recommend to do or where go to after having watched your
    video series ?

  • Anthony Higgins

    Reply Reply October 20, 2017

    I just want to thank you for these great videos your ideas are awesome. My question is. I have a great woman in my life and i need some advice on what texts can interest her the most to make her want to go on a date with me? What can i do to make her have interest in me? Thanks for everything

  • Andrew Gitonga

    Reply Reply October 22, 2017

    Amazing stuff!!! eagerly waiting for the next video

    • Dr. David Tian

      Dr. David Tian

      Reply Reply November 2, 2017

      Thanks, Andrew!

  • Douglas Diener

    Reply Reply October 28, 2017


  • Michael Garner

    Reply Reply November 1, 2017

    Just got out of a merrage for 14 years alot of betrayal from her and want to choose the right one this time I’m 37 and have a great career it’s time just don’t know we’re to start or how to start I should say been out of the game for 17 years been with the same woman 17 years and married for 14 need your help to start on the right track

  • Stefan

    Reply Reply November 9, 2017

    Sounds like strong stuff David!

    Can’t wait to see more of it. I heard a PUA’s comment once that it should be like you and her in a bubble. Nothing else matters at that moment. Be in that moment.

    Im curious to see how you will more closely define this.

  • Chrisanthos Vlasiadis

    Reply Reply November 25, 2017

    Say David, my problem is I don’t even feel good enough to approach women most of the time ! have you encountered anyone with this problem ??

  • Tom

    Reply Reply November 30, 2017

    “Presence” makes perfect sense to me, and I hear you about not wanting to sacrifice your time and morals to just get women. How do I avail myself of follow up videos to this one?

  • Nicolas

    Reply Reply December 1, 2017


    being a almost 52 yrs old french man, i totally agree that cold aproaches especially in westerns countries just doesn’t work or so few times and i Wonder how to attract naturally a woman or girlfriend (or sex friend) without having to put all thèses efforts who in fact just discourage men to keep trying seducing and picking up women that they are not introduced to in the first place ………..

    so, even with being already over 50 yrs old, how to effectively and effortlessly attract a woman ?

    this is the question that so many men who has been discouraged by the cold approaches and cheesy and uneffective methods to “how to pick up women with cold approaches” are asking themselves while beeing more and more discouraged and losing hope and faith about finding a girlfreind or wife or sex friend or partner ……….

    so, dear david (?), can you please tell all about this question about really effectively attracting a woman in our lives even if we are aged over 50 yrs old and i a country whre the women are especially picky, choosy, and not always welcoming to men (france is a perfect exemple)

    thanks a lot in advance in the behalf of all of us, discouraged men about attracting women in our lives …………

    take care ……..

    nicolas dieschbourg

  • Daniel H

    Reply Reply December 2, 2017

    In my subconscious I’ve done it before but I didn’t really know that it will work I guess Woman are more complex than I thought

  • Ryan

    Reply Reply December 25, 2017

    Where is next video?

  • John

    Reply Reply December 26, 2017

    I just need to get back into the dating game and I feel I’m never to old to learn something new. I’m not looking to get tons of women. I’m looking to find the right one. But I do need to weed out the bad ones.

  • Wilfred Phillips

    Reply Reply January 12, 2018

    Makes a lot more sense when you actually ignite some of that grey matter. We are humans , not animals

  • Bipan pal

    Reply Reply January 25, 2018

    Thanks David

  • Marc

    Reply Reply January 27, 2018

    Can’t wait to learn how the concept of mushin plays a part in getting better with women. Interesting stuff. Also really loved the analogy of picking up too many girls to pigging out on ice cream at 17:00. I am a bit of a sugar addict, so I know exactly what that’s like, lol.

  • wesley kelly

    Reply Reply February 2, 2018

    So sounds very fluid and easy. But how do I get to the next video.

  • Kenny P.

    Reply Reply February 8, 2018

    Hi! Interesting video. I do have a Girlfriend now, And she actually «busted» me buying C.Hudsons programs and wanted to know What the hell I am doing. Wasn’t she enough? Am I looking at/seing other women? Then my mind brought back the key points I has learned and I looked her in the eyes and calmy said: Listen, I know this seems weird and maybe you do not like it – BUT, I am doing this for my self. I am a man on a mission to become better in life with my self and other people included. In all area of my life. Wouldn’t it be awesome if our relationship GOT better, more passion, closer connections with each other, less drama and when you look at me, perhaps in 2-5 years from now you see a MAN? … David, I liked this video and I am looking forward to the other videos of yours ?

  • Oscar Waldheim

    Reply Reply February 9, 2018

    Thank you for your insite to this drive that as men want the company of a good women. I am exactly as you say, I’m 62 retired find myself alone and just want a companion to share my life with. I love to travel but to do it alone is not the same if you don’t have someone to enjoy the adventure with. I started following you several months back and understood that I was that Good Guy that would come in and save the day. Now i excited about becoming that man that attracted the right women for me.

  • Quentin R.

    Reply Reply February 10, 2018

    Sounds great, found out that cold approch were not what I needed pretty fast. Now I’m curious about your method

  • Lucho

    Reply Reply February 11, 2018

    thank you so much, can’t believe your putting these videos for free where others will charge tons of money for this info

  • John

    Reply Reply February 15, 2018

    I appreciate the idea of finding a woman from a large numbers of them, but I’m only interested in getting the Love of my life back and keeping her.

  • Peter Kaufinger

    Reply Reply February 20, 2018

    Presence is one of the most important steps one needs to attract women – if I understood you correctly. Similarly to what Hitch taught his clients, “when you’re in the room, BE IN THE ROOM.” Very inspirational David, I look forward to your next video.

  • Chad

    Reply Reply February 20, 2018

    Thank you for the informative video. I will take your advice to action and looking forward to the next video.

  • R.Toney

    Reply Reply February 22, 2018

    Yes i will not wast any more time with the cold approach on line… Women usually screen the loosers there… Thanks even though its going on a year since both me knowing of you and my separation… Divorce is filed and final as of tomorrow… Cheers

  • Anonymous

    Reply Reply February 22, 2018

    It’s always been a great experience listening to the optimism that you bring Dr. David. I have been divorced three years now and looking to get that relationship spark with another woman/women..

  • Arief

    Reply Reply February 24, 2018

    Using english subtitile in the video will be usefull for non native speaker

  • Darius

    Reply Reply March 4, 2018

    I’m 29 going on 30 this year, I haven’t been doing much in my life only had one girlfriend but been friend zone by a lot of women. The last girl I was in wasn’t feeling me like that I just missed the signs. So I’ve just been like forget it all. I just really want to be about to attract women without having to feel like I need to be something I’m not. I’m talking to a girl now, but I don’t know where it will in up going. So I’m hopeful just to this video series will help to be better

  • Raymond

    Reply Reply March 26, 2018

    There are things I definitely need to focus on. My liver and my driving record couldn’t handle the bars anymore so I definitely need a new approach. Starting from scratch is the way I’m going to have to go.

  • Mike

    Reply Reply March 29, 2018

    You definitely said a mouth full…. PRESENCE!

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  • Jose Barron

    Reply Reply April 4, 2018

    Dame man wow!! Like this approach you mentioned really fits my style every much. I’m not a club guy and don’t have the time to be chasing around for girls. But what you said really got me to my soul, sometime I would use the present me unconsciously not knowing. An sometimes I would get the girl but I could never really do it out of nowhere when I’m meeting a new girl, I just freeze ND my mind start wandering around. This program I would very much love to know how to use this to my advantage and be more confident. Thank you for taking your time and teaching me how to be a better man without every changing my style.

  • Dustin Manders

    Reply Reply April 8, 2018

    Dr. David Tian,

    What stoic philosophy books do you recommend for a younger individual? Thank you for your wisdom, and sacrifice you’ve taken on behalf of the rest of us!

  • Jimmy

    Reply Reply April 13, 2018

    I have been divorced for almost a year. I am in my late 40s. I know that lack of presence was a big reason for my marriage to fail. I have had a somewhat serious girlfriend since then. My presence was much better during that one. I am currently setting up a date with a new lady that I have been talking to. Going to definitely try this with her.

  • Darron

    Reply Reply April 18, 2018

    David, I need to find out about your next video.

  • John Hochstetler

    Reply Reply May 5, 2018

    Hey I am eterenly grateful to stumble across you. I have been with my girlfriend for close to a yr in fact our anniversary is in 2 days, and one thing she keeps telling me is you don’t listen too me. You are always doing your own thing and it is like I done exist. Well a month ago we had a big fight and I wanted to end it but agreed with her to give it a bit more time and actually focus on her. I also know that women are attracted to men who are confident and forge there own path which is what initially attracted her. But to find you a month ago and following some of the things you talk about has been huge. Already she is showing more love and initiating sex and overall just becoming the girlfriend of my dreams. Looking forward to learning from you and putting what you talk about to work. You sir are a godsend

  • Jeff

    Reply Reply May 16, 2018

    I find courage in the fact that this is rooted in history. I love history, and my own past failure at attracting the women I want to attract has taught me that I have come to the right place

  • John

    Reply Reply June 10, 2018

    Thanks David

  • Ron

    Reply Reply June 14, 2018

    Thank you David for much needed tips. I’m looking forward to watching the next videos and learn about your experiences.

  • Douglas

    Reply Reply July 8, 2018

    Thank you for sharing your insightfullness. Am looking forward to your next video. Being a trucker and doing the bar thing is very much a bad idea, so not something i have pursued. And am not just looking for a hook up but a lasting connection. Thank you again.

  • Douglas

    Reply Reply July 8, 2018

    Thank you, waiting for next video

  • Ben

    Reply Reply July 30, 2018

    I love the point of being in the moment. We are all guilty of that in our lives. Good stuff buddy. Keep up the good work.

  • Ron Bridges

    Reply Reply August 10, 2018

    I’m a lot older than you, and I’ve had several great girlfriends. I believe I connected with all of them at the beginning by doing exactly what you recommend here.

  • adam

    Reply Reply August 27, 2018

    Thank you very much Dr David would you like to send a more video about not mind get us more knowledge thanks

  • Neil

    Reply Reply September 3, 2018

    I really like the sound of this not going out cold approaching, wasting a lot of time and money. All of these sites that I check out for dating advice usually have the same scenario; story about a guy who struggles with a girl and finds her fucking some other guy. He hit rock bottom and then turned things around with the knowledge from some amazing guy. They all promise to tell you what the secret is to get all the girls you want. You listen for an hour and they never tell you anything but rather try to sell you a program for $69.95. I didn’t notice any attempt to sell me your program. I hope this is a sign of integrity and then I will get what I need I’m listening to you.
    I’m 60 years old now and I would love to have a woman to share my life with. I get a terrible feeling looking at all the beautiful women around and realizing that I never took time when I was younger and now that time has passed and my opportunities are limited.
    When I do get together with a woman come to the sad fact that I don’t know how to make a move on a woman. I can meet a woman and talk to her but I don’t know how to go from talking to touching. I never learned what to do with a woman. When I think back I’m not the only times that I did get laid was when I was drunk and didn’t give a fuck. I’ve been doing a lot of research about women and I found that women give off signals and if a guy can’t pick up on the signals because he’s clueless like me. They don’t want anything to do with you. Feeling rather depressed , miserable and hopeless. I hope you can help.
    Thank you

  • EVAN

    Reply Reply October 17, 2018

    Thanks for the great video. I know there are times where I have felt this feeling of presence when interacting with a woman, it would be amazing to have the clarity and mindfulness to be present more often.

  • Steve

    Reply Reply November 29, 2018

    I totally agree Please teach me

  • Ralph

    Reply Reply December 5, 2018

    My schedule during part of the year is crazy busy. Hundred hour work weeks along with teaching. To have system that would allow me to not hang out in bars and cold approach would be amazing. Being in my mid 50’s and single again bars and night clubs are not my scene.

  • Bill

    Reply Reply December 15, 2018

    Video keeps stopping buffering, annoying as he’ll. What do women really want from men? What ever it is I don’t have it apparently so screw it and screw them.

  • manolo

    Reply Reply December 16, 2018

    i totaly understand where your coming from david when i visit a bar or club i have no problems being present in the womans coversation, its after we have started dating that the problems arise.
    i always end up with women that are only out for themselves. like you i end up only getting hurt and the worst part is i have 3 kids with 2 women that were like this,and not only is it my soul that gets crushed my children must think that its there fault that thy dont see daddy no more when it was there mums that pushed me away ruining my kids upbringing without a farther figure to help steer them down the right paths in life. sad story i know.i was angry for a long time about it all now i just feel disapointed for my children. to top it all off today was my 1yr old daughters birthday, not even allowed to wish her a happy birthday..

  • Joseph

    Reply Reply December 16, 2018

    Present is fine Thanku……BUT WHERE DO YOU MEET THESE WOMEN ……none I do interact with on a daily basis show ANY INTEREST AT ALL NONE ZIP NADA…..

  • Don

    Reply Reply December 16, 2018

    Hi David, so far I’m following along and am hopeful that your system will work for me! I’m fifty two years old and have had women cheat on me and reject me a lot! I’ve been alone for over three years and don’t go to bars and clubs because most women there are big drinkers and I’m not interested in that lifestyle!

  • Tony

    Reply Reply December 24, 2018

    I’m almost in the same boat as you Don. I’m the same age and haven’t dated for 5 years! I hate bars and nightclubs as well. Haven’t had anyone cheat on me but was in a long term relationship that went pear shaped after 20 years!

  • Brent

    Reply Reply January 15, 2019

    Hi David, so far I’m really enjoying your videos and I find them very interesting and informative. I have a question… my girlfriend and I had a breakup and since then she wants us to start fresh by being in the friend zone to start. She feels we originally started our relationship too quickly , is it best if I play hard to get? By maybe not always being the one to pusue her by for example , texting/calling her first, not always initiating our plans/ dates etc…?

  • Mark

    Reply Reply January 24, 2019

    Human interaction trueth.

  • Anonymous

    Reply Reply January 30, 2019

    I enjoyed this video, and i look forward to the next one!

  • Corey

    Reply Reply February 27, 2019

    That is EXACTLY what I have found in my relationships.
    THANKS for your insight, waiting for the next video or the whole program…

  • Steve DeNoble

    Reply Reply May 8, 2019

    I have heard this before in Men are From Mars, Women are From Venus. Women don’t won’t you to ‘fix’ everything. They just want u to listen. Be present. Men immediately want to fix by nature. Women just want some empathy. Someone who’s on their side. So foreign for a man to relate to but the easiest thing to do for her if we just ‘shut up and listen!’

  • Erik

    Reply Reply August 27, 2019

    I use present time consciousness with my patients. It makes sense to use it with women. I like the style of your approach.

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